We're Kate & Ant.

Married 16 years, three years into doing marriage without the rulebook. Like a lot of couples who open things up, ours didn't start with a grand plan. It started with one conversation neither of us expected to have, and it's been evolving ever since. We're travel pros, cruise and Disney experts, adventure seekers... and a married couple who happen to also be very good at finding spicy adult trips with tons of chemistry.

What started as us figuring it out for ourselves has turned into a genuinely growing community. Thousands of couples, singles and friends who follow along, DM us their questions, and increasingly, book their own first cruise off the back of it. We turn up in person too, not just online: you'll find us at UK lifestyle weekenders like Butlins Big Weekender, Liverpool Social, Corruption and the events our community gathers at. Because the best content, and the best friendships and spicy connections, come from actually being there.

What you can expect from us:

• Honest, judgment-free guides to lifestyle-friendly cruising and trips. Written by people who actually do this.

• Connected to a trusted lifestyle travel specialist who knows exactly what "right" means for our community

• A community that gets it. No explaining yourself required

Faceless, but not anonymous:

You won't see our faces here, and that's by design. We know privacy matters, so while we encourage tagging us in your adventures, we ask everyone to skip the faces unless you've got consent.